Is Fail in Public Supposed to Feel Like This? My $750 Learning Curve
The Numbers That Hurt (But Taught Me Everything)
I burned $750 in a month and got exactly zero paying customers. Here’s why that’s the best thing that happened to my startup.
😂 Is fail in public supposed to feel like this?
Let me share the raw numbers:
- 2 weeks to ship MVP
- Daily iterations based on feedback
- $400/month infrastructure costs
- $350 on X ads
- 7 registrations
- 0 payments
My guess: onboarding friction and unclear value proposition.
The Ad Campaign Disaster That Changed Everything
Started with $125 budget. Got ~10 registration attempts from a simple link-in-text tweet boost. That setup was actually working.
Then X changed the rules overnight:
- Ads with external links got penalized
- CPM jumped 5x
- Impressions collapsed
- New “AI autotargeting” burned $400 with almost no signal
The lesson? External links in ads are dead. The new meta:
- Linkless creatives only
- Site link in media attachment
- Video > Image > Text
What Actually Moved the Needle
Week 1: The Reality Check
- Shipped voice-to-tweet in 2 weeks
- Got first users excited
- Realized onboarding was broken
Week 2: The Pivot
- Added Creator Chat (ChatGPT for X)
- Built in 48 hours straight
- First viral moment: 97k impressions
Week 3: The Breakthrough
- Added demo button (no signup required)
- Browser voice assistant
- People could try without friction
- Timeline started moving instantly
The Onboarding Funnel Breakdown
Spent €125 on ads in 2 days. Here’s where people dropped:
- 561 unique visitors
- 635 landings
- 33 reached onboarding (5.8% - terrible)
- 9 started registration
- 2 got verified
- 0 hit payment
The killer mistake? The “free trial” button led to a form asking for payment info immediately. No value shown first.
Lessons From Burning Cash
1. Demo Before Signup
People need to experience the magic before committing. We added:
- Live demo on landing page
- No phone number required
- Instant value delivery
- Posts visible on demo account
2. Simplicity Wins
I rewrote a week’s worth of ads until the soul was gone. Conversion dropped. Started over with:
- Simpler copy
- Clearer value prop
- Human language
- No buzzwords
3. Consistency Beats Perfection
“i’ve shipped, tweaked, and rebuilt my product in public almost 2 months. it’s not always pretty, but the progress stacks up.”
Daily shipping taught me:
- Small improvements compound
- User feedback is gold
- Perfect is the enemy of shipped
The Mental Game of Public Failure
Building in public is brutal. Your failures are visible. Your numbers are transparent. Your struggles are content.
But here’s what I learned:
- Authenticity resonates - People root for real journeys
- Transparency builds trust - Honest numbers attract honest feedback
- Failure is data - Every “no” teaches you something
What I’m Trying Next
Based on the data:
- Fix onboarding friction - Value first, payment later
- Double down on demos - Let people experience before committing
- Video walkthroughs - Show, don’t tell
- Clearer positioning - “Call to tweet” is unique, lean into it
The Unexpected Win
The best part of failing publicly? The community response:
- 11 replies with actionable advice
- 13 likes from fellow builders
- 543 impressions of support
- Real connections with other founders
For Anyone Starting Out
If you’re building in public, remember:
- Your first dollars will be wasted - It’s tuition, not loss
- Transparency attracts help - People want to see you win
- Small pivots > Big rewrites - Iterate based on data
- Demo everything - Reduce friction to zero
The Plot Twist
After all this “failure,” something interesting happened. The demo button worked. People started testing. The timeline moved.
Maybe failing in public isn’t failing at all. Maybe it’s just learning with an audience.
What’s Next
I’m filming walkthrough videos this week. Adding more demo features. Simplifying onboarding even more.
The burn rate is real. The pressure is real. But so is the progress.
Follow the journey: @x11social
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